{"id":5632,"date":"2026-02-17T10:31:48","date_gmt":"2026-02-17T10:31:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/themes.pixelwars.org\/archy\/demo-01\/?p=5632"},"modified":"2026-03-27T14:02:09","modified_gmt":"2026-03-27T14:02:09","slug":"cocugum-neden-beni-dinlemiyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/psikologbarisarikan.com\/?p=5632","title":{"rendered":"\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fum Neden Beni Dinlemiyor?\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok ebeveynin akl\u0131nda ayn\u0131 soru vard\u0131r:<br><strong>\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fum neden beni dinlemiyor?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u00f6ylediklerinizi tekrar edersiniz\u2026<br>uyar\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 bazen k\u0131zars\u0131n\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ama sonu\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmez.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz ya sizi duymaz,<br>ya da duydu\u011fu halde umursamaz gibi davran\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve bir s\u00fcre sonra \u015fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce gelir:<br><strong>\u201cBen nerede yanl\u0131\u015f yap\u0131yorum?\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-large-font-size\">\u00c7ocuklar Ger\u00e7ekten Dinlemiyor mu?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Asl\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu \u00e7ocuk duyar.<br>Ama her duydu\u011funu yapmaz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in \u201cdinlemek\u201d,<br>sadece s\u00f6yleneni yapmak de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-style-default\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/themes.pixelwars.org\/mindi\/demo-01\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2025\/07\/25110-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-26524\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-large-font-size\">Bazen \u00e7ocuk;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hisseder<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>kendi s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 korumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Ve bu da \u201cdinlemiyor\u201d gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-columns is-layout-flex wp-container-core-columns-is-layout-9d6595d7 wp-block-columns-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-column is-layout-flow wp-block-column-is-layout-flow\">\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sorun Davran\u0131\u015f m\u0131, Yoksa \u0130leti\u015fim mi?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7o\u011fu zaman sorun, \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 de\u011fil<br>kurulan ileti\u015fim \u015feklidir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>nas\u0131l konu\u015fuldu\u011funa<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>nas\u0131l hissettirildi\u011fine<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>nas\u0131l yakla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00e7ok duyarl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yani bazen \u00e7ocuk sizi de\u011fil,<br>yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 reddeder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ergenlikte Neden Daha Zorla\u015f\u0131r?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde bu durum daha da belirginle\u015fir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ergen:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z olmak ister<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>kendi kararlar\u0131n\u0131 almak ister<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>kontrol edilmekten rahats\u0131z olur<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu y\u00fczden ebeveynin y\u00f6nlendirmesi,<br>onun g\u00f6z\u00fcnde bask\u0131 gibi hissedilebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Psikolojik Olarak Ne Oluyor?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Psikolog <strong>Bar\u0131\u015f Ar\u0131kan<\/strong>, \u00e7ocuk ve ergenlerle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalarda<br>bu durumun \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bir \u201citaat problemi\u201d de\u011fil,<br>bir \u201cba\u011f kurma problemi\u201d oldu\u011funu g\u00f6zlemler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuk ya da ergen:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\ud83d\udc49 anla\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissederse<br>\ud83d\udc49 duyulmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrse<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>dinlemek yerine uzakla\u015fmay\u0131 se\u00e7er.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/themes.pixelwars.org\/mindi\/demo-01\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/2\/2025\/07\/2150896240-1024x643.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-26528\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Ne Yapabilirsin?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>\u00d6nce anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f, sonra anlat<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>S\u00fcrekli uyarmak yerine ba\u011f kurmaya odaklan<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funun duygusunu g\u00f6r (sadece davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 de\u011fil)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Onu dinledi\u011fini ger\u00e7ekten hissettir<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar en \u00e7ok,<br><strong>anla\u015f\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131 yerde de\u011fi\u015fir.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Sonu\u00e7<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>E\u011fer sen de<br><strong>\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fum neden beni dinlemiyor?\u201d<\/strong> diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorsan,<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>belki de sorun,<br>dinlememesi de\u011fil\u2026<br><strong>anla\u015f\u0131lmamas\u0131 olabilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bir\u00e7ok ebeveynin akl\u0131nda ayn\u0131 soru vard\u0131r:\u201c\u00c7ocu\u011fum neden beni dinlemiyor?\u201d S\u00f6ylediklerinizi tekrar edersiniz\u2026uyar\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 bazen k\u0131zars\u0131n\u0131z\u2026 Ama sonu\u00e7 de\u011fi\u015fmez. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz ya sizi duymaz,ya da duydu\u011fu halde umursamaz gibi davran\u0131r. Ve bir s\u00fcre sonra \u015fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce gelir:\u201cBen nerede yanl\u0131\u015f yap\u0131yorum?\u201d \u00c7ocuklar Ger\u00e7ekten Dinlemiyor mu? Asl\u0131nda \u00e7o\u011fu \u00e7ocuk duyar.Ama her duydu\u011funu yapmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in \u201cdinlemek\u201d,sadece s\u00f6yleneni yapmak de\u011fildir. Bazen \u00e7ocuk; Ve bu da \u201cdinlemiyor\u201d gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcr. 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